A Question

Why do you ask?

Are you talking about humans acting as sexual vampires or parasites, or about non-physical beings acting that way?

I haven’t read that book Oleg. So, can you type out the paragraph in which they mention sexual vampires and parasites?

Oleg,

I did a brief look on that website but couldn’t find the section you were talking about. So, here are some thoughts about sexual vampires and sexual parasites.

Sexual vampires. I think that they are mostly people, not energetic entities. They cultivate their sexual energy and charisma to get other people to release their sexual energy, which they then take in. Porn stars / models / actors are good at getting you to release their sexual energy, and if they are good at then taking in your energy, then that would make them a sexual vampire. I don’t think that sexual vampires are very common.

Sexual parasites. These, I think are very common. I think that they are mostly low astral entities that are attracted to unclaimed sexual energy and can even help incite you to lose sexual energy. For example, if you masturbate thinking while having some fantasy, when you come, who claims your sexual energy? It is unlikely that you claim it yourself if you were engaging in fantasy. If you were engaged in internal energy work while masturbating, then you probably did not lose too much energy outwards. Most likely, though, that energy was claimed by a sexual parasite. The parasites, I think, also have the ability to incite that fantasy for you, making you want to come again and again, losing more energy to them.

So, my thinking is that it is not good to engage in fantasy about other people, or you lose your energy either to them or to some parasite. Best is to be in a loving relationship with another person in which you share your sexual energies with each other – yin and yang in a dance of passion.

Chris

I agree with your view of the White
Tigress path. I think that the emphasis
placed on using another person’s sexual
energy is too “limiting”.

I felt a deep connection with the Tigress practices
and have been doing the solo ones daily.

Often during practice I feel a beautiful
goddess come and wrap herself around me, letting
me become her, allowing my kidneys to soften and
heart to really shine.
This has allowed me to feel more feminine in the
sense of surrendering, opening up to the sun,
earth, nature, as well as strangers, and an orgasmic
mixing of those energies (which are all sexual anyway).

Vampires can only exist if you let them. You can always
feel whether the love is true or not.

Adel

>>>I don’t see why White Tigresses couldn’t play some flute
>>>with their Green Dragons, because these guys don’t anyway
>>>try to reserve their cum shots.

A willing victim is still a victim, nonetheless.

In fact, in some sense, a victim has to be somewhat willing
to even be a victim to start with. Someone with a strong
center and strong sense of boundaries is not likely to be
victimized.

>>>I’m personally much more worried about those whom
>>>Anton Szandor LaVey calls psychic vampires.

Most are easy to spot because they require a lot of
emotional attention and support, but provide none in return.
You’ll notice being tired and drained of energy after
dealing with them. If you remain centered, and do not
engage them, they will lose interest in you and find
another willing victim.

If you are really worried about this, do lots of grounding
exercises and exercises that strengthen your boundaries.
For a cheap fix, wear a necklace made of labradorite.

>>>Ps. By the way does this White Tigress/Green Dragon/Jade Dragon
>>>tradition recognize situation where it’s actually Jade Dragon
>>>who plays flute with his Green Dragons?

I do not see why it couldn’t apply to gay men.
Usually gay men trade oral sex for mutual fulfillment,
but if one is always the recipient amongst many givers,
it is a basically a vampire arrangement. I guess for a
strict parallel, you would need to have 3 men, as usually
the Jade Dragon is the voyeur of the White Tigress and Green Dragon.

In any case, I don’t know how much of the
White Tigress/Green Dragon/Jade Dragon
“TRADITION” is actually a tradition.
It is unclear if this material was actually “discovered”,
or it is just a purely invented tradition created out of
the sexual fantasies of the mind of one Stuart Alve Olson,
the person behind the pseudonym Hsi Lai.

Personally, I would steer clear of any “tradition” or “path”
that has the energy of exploitation of another for one’s own
personal gain. It is not the type of energy I want to
align myself with.

Steven

Hi Adel,

DHQ is a great one, keep it up.
I love DHQ and can’t say enough good about it.

Another is the Belt Channel meditations and qigongs
from Fusion 2. Of course, as you should recognize,
DHQ contains this at several points already, built
right into the form.

In addition to the belt channel work,
the auric meditations of Fusion 3 also directly
deal with strengthening your boundaries on an
energetic level.

HOWEVER, in my experience, even more effective than
doing exercises that work directly on an energetic
level on your boundaries . . . is to simply work on
getting more grounded! If you get more grounded, your
boundaries will automatically strengthen as a natural
consequence. You won’t really need to do much
“boundary work” then. Boundary issues are really–at their
core–earth issues anyway. You may as well go straight
to the source, rather than energetically fix the symptoms.

Most effective method for developing grounding is to
do standing practice, regularly and consistently
for a period of time. The effects are cumulative.

By “taking a stand” in practice, you will naturally
become more effective at taking a stand in your relation
to others, both consciously and unconsciously.

Best,
Steven