Wow people been lying about their sexual habits since they figured out sexual habits…and you really cannot look down on anyone for what they do sexually anymore than you can look down on an infant for soiling themselves. They are what they are are right now…Can you teach a child not to soil themselves….of course through practice, patience, and a then when they are ready…boom they are potty trained. Sex for power, sex for ego, sex for violence, sex for self abuse…all the same can we change the way people look at this….no not until they want to. So as someone who does not look at life through these lenses what is my job to help these people…who knows. All I can do is look at things as they are and be there as people come and go and try to add more value somehow.