does energy have anything to do with it?

Hi guys,

I have learned retention for many years now, and also I have been practising creathing exercises and qigong as well.
For the past 2 years, I have had 8 lovers, and all of them when I make love to them, expressed immense pleasure and moaning and tell me “woow, you’re soooo good”(with eyes wide open or shut) compared to their other lovers. In fact when I do it to them, (the Taoist way, slowly without hurry), they can’t even talk cos they are panting and moaning. Only when I “take a break” that they can talk. And in 1 session they would come at least minimum 3 times, while I seldom ejeculated.
Even when I went to prostitutes, (I do it only with young asian students who need to pay their school fees), they tell me out of all of their customers, I am ‘the best’ that brings them to orgasm again and again. A few of them loved it so much that they got aquainted with me as my lover, and came to my house for free.

I would say my ‘equipment’ is average size, not too big, not too small nor short. Just 15 inch long. I just can’t figure it out, I am sure its not the size. Is it the energy that makes them feel that way??? Or the slow Taoist method? ( I considered that it might be me doing it slowly and for long time, but most of them when I enter them, they say “what is it about you? It feels so good, even when you just put it in”.)
I have asked them what specifically is it that makes them feel so good? They said “I don’t know, it just does.” (Even some of my lovers over the years who did not like sex with their ex-boyfriends or customers, said to me I am the first one that they enjoy it with).

Please, this is a sincere serious question that I am trying to figure out. I do not intent to brag or exaggerate, and I truly think that Taoist Sexual Methods are really superior.

Another thing to add is, to every girl I make love with, I send them love in my imagination. (But i dont think this has anything to do with it).