Semen Retention

You are welcome. I would defer and say there are others here that are more insightful than I. You have already communicated with some.

If you don’t know what the thrusting channel is, then leave it alone for now. Sorry to answer this way but I would rather see you stay focused on what you are doing and master that then get distracted with other channels/meridians etc. etc.

It may help to re-read Chia/Winn’s Taoist Secrets of Love book a few times. I don’t think I’ve ever read a book once and got everything I needed out of it the first time. One part talks about the different levels of ‘retention’. From physically manipulating to the pure mind manipulation. My opinion is if you are using physical manipulation it is possible for things to go where they aren’t supposed to and maybe cleaning out the pipes may have some benefit. One time I was too physical and started to have burning sensations and after when I urinated it was foamy. It was the semen going down and into the bladder. As you move away from the physical and use more mind you are not arousing any ‘fluids’ but just pure energy-jing that you just circulate. Why would you need to clean the pipes if you are just circulating energy jing/chi/or spirit? There are many people who are celebit for years without any health problems. Didn’t you mention Mantak Chia went ten years yourself? It is only if there are energitic blockages or physical sensation reasons to. So if you still feel fine DON’T DO IT, KEEP GOING, just think how you will feel at 9 or 12 months!!!!!!

The book talks about the valley orgasm. Again you might want to re read it. I am not at that level yet myself. But with your partner through exchanging energy and climaxing together and moving the energy to the different dan tiens you have multiple orgasims. From your posts it seems in the begining you just exchanged energy with the Earth. But afterwards doing the multiples it seems like you had something like a valley orgasim with mother earth instead of a human female. For solo cultivators the book mentions balancing out your yang energy with the yin Earth. You seem to be doing well, that is good.

For me I have a lot of emotional repression and feel it is too controlling. So I have been working on trying to open up to it and accept me. I find that sometimes my repression uses sexual energy as an outlet. So I do Fusion first and then the Big Draw. Using too much adult material or fantasies for arousal especially in excess maybe fun but I find underneath a hidden emotional agenda (usually anger). And that agenda will just keep reinforcing itself that way. Because it is not being dealt with at the surface.

If you get to arousal and feel like you are going to loose it in your practice I find either focusing on the Hui Yin or have the feeling of the orgasim quickly go to the head of the penis and then immediately like a rubber band snap into myself instead of shooting out helpful in not ejaculating. It is also helpful not to have tension or contraction, that may force it out the wrong way. You must love yourself, relax and sometimes use some contraction to pump it into your MCO. Too much contraction or tension when it is located in the sexual center will make it find the nearest outlet which will be the front and loss of it.

When it comes time for a human partner I think it is helpful to remember unless that person is at the same level as you they may be like an extra battery pack and the combination of both of you may be too much current to handle ie too much excitement. So when you practice I find it helpful to think in terms of you must practice to handle twice the amps.

Keep up with your practice and try to master the basics. Remember the practices have been structured a certain way for a reason, not to jump around with. Learn the structure step by step. Hope I didn’t babble too much and what I’ve said may help someone.