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It is the sparkle — it is that — the divine essence. The home seed. And I agree with you Wendy — nothing can destroy that. We are all truly immortal already. Just sometimes stuff gets kind of heavy in covering it up but it is there in each and every one of us.
It has truly been good for me to talk to you’s today. I didn;t get much done at work, but it was all so well worth it.
Pain is so individual and in itself can heal many things. In sharing pain we can also share in the healing. That is a good thing.
Rainbows!
I truly agree … to give is to receive. Sometimes to give even when one does not truly feel like it. sometimes those times are the most wonderful. They turn that way. Relationships require understanding and sharing … in all things. I am quite old fashioned though …. one man, one relationship. If it doesn’t work then the relationship is ended with respect and then if required a new one started. Only two men in 35 years. Sex is only part of it and it can be as fulfilling or not, it is always ones own choice, well theirs and their partners.
I do not judge others intimacy. That is not of my concern.
Is true I suppose but trying doesn’t always hurt.
I have taken the route described I am afraid. Facing the very “bottom of the pit”. Dove right in. Waiting for the saturation point actually. soon I do hope. Soon.
That is what I was thinking, becuase I am starting to get hooked in by those damn Russians. But who knows, maybe the immortals DID fuck with the balls.
Since we are on the topic what do you think of drinking while doing the Bodri 3 month detox? I havent had anything to drink since starting a couple weeks ago and am guessing it’s better to avoid alcohol while doing this. Any thoughts?
-Only eat fruit on an empty stomach (e.g., in the a.m.)
-Don’t mix starches (rice, pasta, bread, potatoes) with concentrated proteins (milk, meat, fish, tofu, eggs, etc.) in the same meal
-Eat vegtables often, with starches or proteins or by themselves
-Avoid processed foods and processed sugarsYes, if one even sticks to not mixing starches with proteins, they will come back to their natural weight…
Daniel Reid’s book is one of the best books on eating. I would also recommend ‘The Primal Diet’ By Aajonus Vonderplanitz if anyone wants to learn about all raw diet (including raw protein).
Primal DietI mostly agree with this, unless of course, what the other wants is starting to really part from what you want; but if you start from a spirit of wanting to please the other, to bring them happiness, pleasure, feelings of self worth and relaxation, to really enter into communication with them, then that can generate something really beautiful; in fact, if you start from a spirit of generosity, that can bring out the same spirit in the other, and vice versa–but someone has to start, just as conversely someone has to decide to bury the hatchet to end a cycle of revenge.
I gave myself over and over and over, oh sure I received plenty of orgasms myself, correction I always have an orgasm when we having sex with him, which is the overall idea that a woman is pleased when she has an orgasm.
Wrong! I can have plenty of orgasms and not being fulfilled, not being touched in my soul, there are many levels of sex. My partner is a really good lover, he knows everything I like, and vice versa and yet I am not touched. So on one level he is giving me a lot as well, and it is my guess that many women would be pleased to have such a great lover. His aim is to please a woman, to give her the best orgasm possible, because then he feels good about himself as well. It is like a game, target is set, and you have to score as fast and best as possible. Game over.We had this discussion a million times in these 24 years. I don’t want Rambo in my bed, I don’t want Casanova in my bed, I want HIM in my bed.
Coming forward with yourself, opening your heart, being intimate, takes courage and unfortunately many men lack the courage to do that.
The fear of rejection is too big to overcome, especially when you are very yang it is very difficult.
But as said previous, I have patience, my partner is in depth a very very loving man and I believe in him. That is what love is about.It is only now after 24 years I created my personal space/temple where I can set my own energy. If you live with a yang male it is very difficult to expand yourself because no matter what, his energy is penetrating everywhere.
So in order to unfold personally I need this space to enter my energy in depth.What you are talking about is my ultimate wish, and I guess everybody’s wish. If you can experience it with your partner that is really fine.
Drinking intoxicants is a violation of the Buddhist precepts.
Then again, I am not a monk. 🙂
I drink
and I do not think
much about it..I get your point, but isn’t “modifying the type of foods eaten” really just “eating less?”
Think about it. You are “eating less” of “something” in favor of “something else.”
…really, I do! But like he says, what if the other person doesn’t share the attitude? 🙁
I guess you say “next!” Hence, my “more cunts theory.”
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